Teeth…

Teeth… we all have them! Well, ok, some people don’t have their own anymore, or others, like my 18 mo daughter, are still in the process of cutting them.  Let me tell you, it’s a painful process right now for the entire household!

She’s such a good-natured baby overall, so when she’s at all unhappy, she’s really unhappy.  Who would have thought that such a petite little thing could exhibit such a fierce temper?!  When she gets mad, it’s a sight to behold. My dear spouse and I knew we were in for it with both kids, since we are both so stubborn, but my goodness, can she let out a mighty roar when she’s upset!

We’ve had what seems like more than our share of sleepless nights…a lot of walking, rocking, singing, and when all else fails, late night television…it’s amazing how much is now on, thanks to so many channels, at all hours!

So I’ll continue to rock her and try to soothe her when she’s up in the middle of the night… while tiring and a bit painful right now, I know I’ll look back and realize how fleeting this moment really is.  And I’ll have tears in my eyes.

Grow those pretty little teethies, and know that soon you’ll have a beautiful pearly smile and be able to eat fun things like pizza! Feel better, little one, Mommy’s here, and I’ll try to help you all I can.

More soon… All my best,

Add comment June 30, 2009 njmomof2

Need to move…on!

“We need more customers — we need to sell this house,” came the exclamation this afternoon from my four year-old!  You see, we had yet another open house for our home in New Jersey, and due to the floundering market, we did not have as strong a turnout, to say the least, as we’d hoped. 

Yes, our son is picking up on the not so subtle anymore comments exchanged between myself and dear spouse…  Said spouse unfortunately who spends most of each work week now out of state, away from loving family!  Hence the reason for needing to sell our house in this trying economy…

Still, we have now made the emotional decision to move, for the betterment of the family — for family togetherness, peace, sanity, and especially for the good of our kids.  And now that we have decided to do so, and move out of state as soon as the house sells.. of course nothing has happened yet.  So just about every Sunday, we kiss hubby /Daddy goodbye until Friday, and my stint as single superMom begins again….

Oh I hope we can sell this house soon! Please send us your “customers” ! out of the mouths of babes, right?!

More soon…All my best,

Add comment June 8, 2009 njmomof2

sunny day…

“It’s sunny today!” exclaimed my 4 year-old upon awakening this morning, at the crack of dawn. He was so excited that the sun is finally shining for more than a few hours.  We had over a full week of rainy days, so now anytime it’s nice out , he is very excited! And rightly so.  I think we were all beginning to feel moldy…

On the upside– my lawn and garden have never looked so green and lush. But we were beginning to run out of indoor, toddler-friendly games to play, and everyone was getting cabin fever.

Bring on spring — and summer– time to play outside!!! I hope everyone enjoys the nice weather.

More soon…All my best,

Add comment May 12, 2009 njmomof2

baby steps…

I’m still a bit teary-eyed…. my little one, my 16-month old daughter, walked yesterday.  Yes, on Mother’s Day!  I know it’s a bit cliche, but she walked, solo, to me –her mommy, and on Mother’s Day nonetheless! I was definitely overwhelmed and pleasantly surprised to say the least.

I have very mixed feelings about this new development.  It may be tomorrow, or not until next month, before she is really “walking”, or like her brother did, running, across the room independently.  But we know it’s coming…   Should I push her cute little diapered tushy back down and hope that she doesn’t walk yet? I wonder…. LOL

She is more than likely our last baby, so I have very strange emotions that accompany each new stage in her growth.  I’m sure it’s natural, and part of “mommy angst” or whatever the latest label is… but for me, it’s very emotional to see her becoming her own little person.  She’s tiny, but already with such a temper and strong personality, that it’s easy to envision the little girl she’ll be, and even the independent young woman down the road…

For now, I’ll enjoy seeing her walk her halting step or two to me (and to her daddy too , much to his joy :) , and then watch her decide to crawl across the floor the rest of the way, because she’s more comfortable doing so and knows she’ll get there faster.  We know this will change in an instant, so we’ll embrace it, and her, now while we can.

More soon…All my best,

Add comment May 11, 2009 njmomof2

Circling…

Did you ever watch a group of preschoolers “play” soccer?  It’s definitely, according to several friends’ keen observations , swarm ball!  They run around, staying together in a tight pack,  trying to follow that black and white object.   Most of them don’t even know how to play yet…

They’re learning so many valuable life lessons during this “game” — to follow rules,  to take direction, to play well with others,  and to begin being part of a team!  For these things alone, starting to play a sport, especially while very young, is priceless…

The look on those little faces when one of them manages to kick the ball properly is so incredible.  My four year old, while practicing in the backyard, yells out, “Mommy, look, I’m scoring!!”   He has such a look of pure joy on his face — it’s amazing!

So like many suburban parents, this weekend we too will be out on the field, cheering on our little sport.  Do we care that he’s just running in circles with his friends?  No, of course not.  To us,  he’s an all-star and this could be the World Cup, because in a way, it is.

 

More soon…All my best,

Add comment April 17, 2009 njmomof2

Just another day…

My birthday is tomorrow … and I’m a little flustered by it.  I know it’s just another day, and it’s just a number!  Why does it bother me?

When I was younger, probably college or just post, I thought someone of “the age I am now” was a true adult… they would be settled, knowing exactly who they were and what they wanted to do with their life.  

How wrong was that ? It was a fantasy of a very young person! Although I’m married, educated, with children, a home-owner, etc… etc…. I in no way feel like a grown up right now!  I have adult responsibilities, but I am still trying to figure out what I want to be if I ever decide to “grow up.”

This continuing saga will be an ongoing quest…. In the meantime, I know I’ll have a happy day, full of family, friends and good wishes.  And it’s really just a day and just a number.

More soon… all my best,

Add comment April 13, 2009 njmomof2

On display…

Our home is now for sale, and I’m not sure how I feel about it. I know I’m sad to need to move — we’ve built a great life and a wonderful home for our family here.  But spouse’s job dictates that it’s time to change states, so on the market we are… I can be positive and hopeful that it sells quickly and well, and that we’re able to move on.  I can hope that another family will love all we’ve done and see all the hopes and dreams and sweat we’ve put into making this a welcoming home…

We had an open house this weekend.  Let me tell you, it’s very surreal to have people other than your friends and family whom you’ve invited come into your home and roam through the entire house.  I don’t even think most of our friends and family members have really looked at our house this way. Bathrooms, bedrooms, closets are all now on display to people who don’t even know us!  It’s really strange, and makes me feel very vulnerable.  I know it’s all part of the process, and I should try better to detach, but I guess I’m just not there yet.

Oh well… time to continue paring down another closet so it’s even less personal the next time someone walks through…

More soon…All my best,

Add comment March 30, 2009 njmomof2

These are the days…

…you’ll remember!  

I can’t get the 10,000 Maniacs song out of my head!!

These are the days
These are days you’ll remember
Never before and never since, I promise
Will the whole world be warm as this
And as you feel it,
You’ll know it’s true
That you are blessed and lucky
It’s true that you
Are touched by something
That will grow and bloom in you

These are days that you’ll remember
When May is rushing over you
With desire to be part of the miracles
You see in every hour
You’ll know it’s true
That you are blessed and lucky
It’s true that you are touched
By something that will grow and bloom in you

These are days
These are the days you might fill
With laughter until you break
These days you might feel
A shaft of light
Make its way across your face
And when you do
Then you’ll know how it was meant to be
See the signs and know their meaning
It’s true
Then you’ll know how it was meant to be
Hear the signs and know they’re speaking
To you, to you

 

I’m rushing around trying to get it all done:  decluttering, touch up painting (ok, the painting and grouting is more my hubby’s department this week:), cleaning every room of as much clutter as possible, packing unnecessary items, landscaping,  advertising, and all the while trying to , oh yes, juggle two small kids and keep everyone happy, clean, fed and with clean clothing!  Oh, and of course next week begins the birthday month, and then Passover to finish getting ready for (and host 2nd night :) ………I’m laughing because otherwise there are a few times this past week that I’d otherwise throw up my hands and just start crying…

But I know once we get through this craziness, and hopefully, G-d willing soon, sell this house,  we’ll move on and laugh about this period in time. 

I wonder what we’ll think as we look back?  To be determined, but right now, we just need to get through the next few weeks with some semblance of sanity.  And good humor!

More soon….All my best,

Add comment March 25, 2009 njmomof2

Sharing ?

Do people ever really become comfortable sharing?  Either toys or feelings? I know my kids are definitely not yet at that sharing phase.  As much as we tell our almost 4 y.o. son to share his toys with his little sister, let’s face it,  it just doesn’t really rate on a preschooler’s priority list.    Does it really rank highly for adults either?

I know a lot of people who still don’t share their possessions, or even their feelings, with even those closest to them.   Is this inherent, or do we have to learn this as we develop?   Something to ponder.

In the meantime, I need to go referree again.  There’s a war over some little people animals and hot wheels cars brewing!

More soon… All my best,

Add comment March 21, 2009 njmomof2

Song titles…

OK, here’s the drill. Using song titles from only one artist, answer the following questions.
 My artist: Billy Joel

1. Are you male or female: She’s Always a Woman
2. Describe yourself: Uptown Girl
3. How do you feel about yourself: I Go to Extremes
4. Describe your ex boyfriend/girlfriend: Big Shot
5. Describe your current boy/girl situation: You’re My Home
6. Describe your current location: New York State of Mind
7. Describe where you want to be: Say Goodbye to Hollywood
8. Your best friend is: Honesty
9. Your favorite color is: Blonde Over Blue
10. You know that: Only the Good Die Young
11. What’s the weather like: Fallin of the Rain
12. If your life were a television show what would it be called: My Life
13. What is life to you: It’s Still Rock N Roll To Me
14. What is the best advice you have to give: Night is still Young
15. If you could change your name what would you change it to: All for Leyna

Add comment March 19, 2009 njmomof2

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